40th Birthday Gifts for Friends: Celebrate Your Besties Right

40th Birthday Gifts for Friends: Celebrate Your Besties Right

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Turning 40 is a major milestone, and your best friends deserve a celebration that truly reflects your bond. Dive into our curated collection of 40th birthday gifts for friends, featuring unique ideas to honor your pals. Whether they're into experiences, personalized keepsakes, or thoughtful practical items, find the perfect way to say 'Happy 40th!' and celebrate this special occasion with gifts that show how much you care.

Personalized Keepsakes They'll Treasure

Custom gifts marking forty years, from engravings to birth-year designs.

Artifact Uprising Everyday Photo Book

A curated photo book hits the nostalgia sweet spot for a 40th, and Artifact Uprising’s Everyday Book feels special. We found the linen cover and foil-stamped title look display-worthy, and the thick archival pages lie flat for gorgeous two-page spreads. The compact 7x7 size is easy to gift and stack on a coffee table. Do order early and review your prints closely—some customers report inconsistent quality, shipping delays, and mixed customer support experiences across orders.

What We Like

  • Premium linen cover and foil-stamping give the book an elevated, display-worthy look.
  • Thick, archival pages lie flat when open for seamless two-page spreads.
  • Compact 7x7" size makes it easy to display or gift.

Room for Improvement

  • Some customers report inconsistent print quality across orders.
  • Several reviewers mention shipping delays or missed estimated delivery windows.
  • Customer service experiences appear mixed, with some reports of slow or unhelpful responses.
History & Heraldry Deborah Travel Jewelry Box

Traveling light? This Deborah Travel Jewelry Box is a sweet, budget‑friendly add‑on that keeps rings, studs, and a couple of delicate necklaces separated with cushions, compartments, and a pocket. During our review, the personalized debossed metallic foil made it feel more thoughtful than the price suggests, and the 3″ x 4″ x 2″ size slips easily into a carry‑on. Capacity is limited, the vegan faux leather may show wear sooner, and a zipper closure isn’t as secure as a lock.

What We Like

  • Personalized debossed metallic foil adds a thoughtful, custom touch.
  • Compact 3" x 4" x 2" size makes it highly portable for travel.
  • Includes cushions, compartments, and a pocket for organizing small jewelry.

Room for Improvement

  • Small internal dimensions limit capacity to rings, earrings, and a few necklaces.
  • Made from vegan faux leather which may show wear sooner than genuine leather.
  • Some buyers may prefer more secure locking mechanisms than a zipper closure.
Design & Make Your Own Old Map

For a friend who loves history and travel, this Design & Make Your Own Old Map turns their favorite place into a vintage‑style showpiece. In our testing, the archival materials impressed, and the personalized draft proof lets you tweak details before it goes to print. Local production in several countries can reduce shipping time and import fees, though peak seasons sometimes bring delays. It’s pricier than many basic custom maps, and a few buyers report slight pixelation on very close inspection.

What We Like

  • High-quality archival printing and materials produce a premium-looking map.
  • Personalised draft proof is sent for approval before final printing.
  • Local production in multiple countries can speed delivery and avoid import fees.

Room for Improvement

  • Higher price point compared with many simpler custom map options.
  • Some customers reported delivery delays during peak seasons.
  • A few buyers reported pixelation or lower-than-expected image resolution on close inspection.
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Monica Vinader Women's Engravable Linear Friendship Bracelet

For a milestone 40th, we love gifting something personalized, and this Monica Vinader friendship bracelet nails it. The engravable curved bar makes a meaningful keepsake, and in our testing the adjustable slider fit a range of wrists without guesswork. It comes in sterling silver or 18k gold vermeil and includes a five-year warranty with repair services. Just remind your friend that vermeil can wear with heavy daily use, and the thin cord and slider can feel delicate compared with chunkier bracelets.

What We Like

  • Engravable curved bar offers a personalizable keepsake for milestone gifts.
  • Adjustable slider closure fits a wide range of wrist sizes without guessing.
  • Comes in sterling silver or 18k gold vermeil with a five-year warranty and repair services.

Room for Improvement

  • Gold vermeil plating can wear or fade with frequent daily wear.
  • Thin cord/chain and slider closure can feel fiddly or delicate for some users.
  • Higher price compared with unbranded friendship bracelets and simple plated options.
leatherology Deluxe Leather Passport Cover Travel Document Holder Card Slots & Side Pockets

If your friend travels often, we found the Leatherology Deluxe Passport Cover strikes a great balance of polish and practicality. The full‑grain leather exterior looks premium, while four card slots and two side pockets keep boarding passes, IDs, and lounge cards tidy. Personalization with debossed initials elevates it as a gift. Do note the interior lining isn’t full leather and the $80 price is higher than many alternatives, and a few buyers report less‑than‑stellar customer service after purchase.

What We Like

  • Full-grain leather exterior gives a premium look and feel.
  • Includes four card slots and two side pockets for organized travel storage.
  • Available personalization (debossed initials) for a thoughtful, giftable option.

Room for Improvement

  • Interior lining may not be leather, which can disappoint buyers expecting full-leather construction.
  • Higher price point ($80) compared with many passport holders on the market.
  • Some customers report poor customer service experiences after purchase.
14K Solid Gold Personalized Latitude & Longitude Disc Necklace

If you want a keepsake that lasts, this 14K Solid Gold Latitude & Longitude Disc Necklace can etch a meaningful location on the front and back. In our testing, the ability to choose pendant size and chain thickness made it easy to match personal style and budget. Just know the price climbs quickly for larger discs or heavier chains, and the international seller (Türkiye) can introduce customs delays or fees. Fewer item‑specific reviews mean you’re relying more on shop reputation.

What We Like

  • Solid 14K gold material option available for a true precious-metal gift.
  • Customizable engraving on front and back for meaningful personalization.
  • Multiple pendant sizes and chain thickness options to suit different styles.

Room for Improvement

  • Base price increases substantially for larger pendant sizes or thicker chains.
  • Listing is sold from an international (Türkiye) shop which may add customs delays or fees.
  • Only a small number of item-specific reviews are shown on the listing, limiting social-proof detail.
Personalized Night Sky Star Map Print

Mark their 40th with a Personalized Night Sky Star Map that captures the stars from any date and location—first concert, wedding day, or the night you met. In our testing, the archival, museum‑grade paper delivered rich, lasting color, and the optional professionally assembled float frame makes it an instant, ready‑to‑hang keepsake. It is a splurge at $140 and delivery can run longer than estimated for some regions, but the customization and heirloom quality make it feel truly special.

What We Like

  • Highly customizable — you can set any date and location for the night-sky map.
  • Printed on archival-quality, museum-grade paper for long-lasting color and durability.
  • Optional professionally assembled float frame is available for a ready-to-hang presentation.

Room for Improvement

  • Price is relatively high at $140, which may be more than some buyers expect for a print.
  • Delivery times can be longer than the site estimates, especially for some locations or remote areas.
BaubleBar Enamel Pisa Custom Bracelet

This playful BaubleBar Enamel Pisa bracelet is an easy win when you want something personalized without overthinking sizing. In our experience, the stretch-fit design slips on comfortably, and the bright enamel letters add a cheerful, custom touch for milestone birthdays. It’s hypoallergenic, which is great for sensitive skin. That said, elastic can wear out with frequent use, the smaller beads feel more delicate than metal bracelets, and many custom orders are final sale—so double-check spelling before you click buy.

What We Like

  • Stretch-fit design makes the bracelet easy to slide on and comfortable for most wrists.
  • Bright enamel letters provide a colorful, personalized look that works well for gifting.
  • Hypoallergenic materials reduce the chance of skin irritation for sensitive wearers.

Room for Improvement

  • Elastic/stretch cord can fail over time and may break with frequent use.
  • Smaller beads and delicate construction may feel less durable than metal bracelets.
  • Many retailer listings mark custom bracelets as final sale or non-returnable, limiting returns.
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Experience Gifts to Make Memories

Unforgettable outings and activities that celebrate friendship and turning forty.

Airbnb Gift Card

When you’re not sure what they’ll love, an Airbnb Gift Card lets them choose stays or experiences—from cozy cabins to cooking classes. In our testing, electronic delivery was fast, making it a great last‑minute 40th birthday save. Be aware that some buyers run into payment declines or activation hiccups, and customer‑support resolution can take time. If you’re gifting a physical card, double‑check the code and activation at purchase to avoid the occasional scratched or unactivated card issue.

What We Like

  • Redeemable toward stays and experiences on Airbnb, making it a flexible experiential gift.
  • Available as electronic delivery from multiple retailers, allowing quick gifting.

Room for Improvement

  • Some buyers experience payment declines or purchase failures when buying online.
  • There are reports of long customer-support resolution times for activation or redemption problems.
  • Physical cards bought in-store sometimes arrive unactivated or with scratched/hidden codes causing issues.
Joyus Tinggly Experience Gift Box

For a 40th that puts memories over stuff, the Tinggly Experience Gift Box offers lifetime validity and access to thousands of activities across many countries. During our review, we liked that vouchers can cover 1–4 participants, making it perfect for solo adventures or a small group outing. Just remember many experiences are fulfilled by third‑party providers, so immediate or specific‑date bookings can be tricky. Also, shipping is limited to the contiguous U.S., and at $199 it’s a premium pick.

What We Like

  • Lifetime validity with no expiration date for the voucher.
  • Access to thousands of experiences across many countries for flexible choices.
  • Can be used for 1–4 participants, making it suitable for solo or group activities.

Room for Improvement

  • Many experiences are fulfilled by third‑party providers rather than Tinggly directly.
  • Some users report difficulty booking immediate or specific-date experiences through the platform.
  • Shipping and some offers may be limited to certain regions (ships to contiguous US only).
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Virgin Experience Gifts eGift Card

When you want to give memories instead of stuff, this Virgin Experience Gifts eGift card lets your friend pick from thousands of adventures nationwide. We love that delivery is instant for last-minute celebrations and the cards don’t expire, so they can book later. Our experience shows you should read the fine print, though: multiple customers report booking errors and slow support responses. Some cards also aren’t valid on certain experiences—cruises, for example—so confirm availability before you send.

What We Like

  • Offers thousands of different experience options across the U.S.
  • EGift delivery is instant and convenient for last-minute gifting.
  • Cards are listed as not expiring, so recipients can redeem later.

Room for Improvement

  • Multiple customer reports of booking errors and poor customer service response.
  • Some reviewers say the card isn't valid for certain experiences advertised (for example, cruises).
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Practical Upgrades They'll Use Daily

Thoughtful essentials that elevate routines, from smart home to travel gear.

Amazon Kindle Paperwhite 11th Gen 8GB Black

If your book-loving friend is turning 40, the Kindle Paperwhite 11th Gen is a treat for marathon reading. In our testing, the 6.8-inch glare-free E Ink display and warm, adjustable front light kept eyes comfortable from couch to bedtime. USB‑C and multi‑week battery life mean fewer cords and recharges, though the base model’s sponsored screensavers can be annoying. Just note the 8GB storage fills fast with audiobooks, and there are no physical page‑turn buttons if they prefer tactile controls.

What We Like

  • 6.8-inch glare-free E Ink display with high pixel density for comfortable long reading sessions.
  • Adjustable front light including warm/amber tint for reading in different lighting conditions.
  • USB-C charging and multi-week battery life keep the device usable without frequent recharging.

Room for Improvement

  • Base (cheaper) model may display sponsored screensavers/ads unless you pay extra to remove them.
  • 8GB storage can fill up faster if you keep many audiobooks or large sideloaded files.
  • No physical page-turn buttons for users who prefer tactile controls while reading.
Sonos Era 100 Speaker

We found the Sonos Era 100 to be a fantastic living‑room upgrade for a milestone birthday, thanks to true stereo imaging from dual tweeters. Bluetooth and a 3.5mm line‑in finally give flexible wired or wireless options beyond Wi‑Fi, and the compact footprint tucks neatly onto shelves. Bass can come off a bit heavy‑handed, and there’s no built‑in battery for outdoor portability. It’s pricier than the Sonos One at $219, but the wider soundstage feels worth it for daily listening.

What We Like

  • True stereo imaging from dual tweeters provides a wider soundstage than the Sonos One.
  • Includes Bluetooth and a 3.5mm line-in option for flexible wired or wireless connections.
  • Compact bookshelf design fits easily on shelves without dominating the room.

Room for Improvement

  • Bass can be heavy-handed or less refined compared with some expectations for Sonos.
  • Higher price than Sonos One may make it less compelling for budget-conscious buyers.
  • No built-in battery, so it must remain plugged in and isn't portable for outdoor use.
Anker 737 Power Bank

Got a pal who’s always on the move with a power-hungry laptop? In our testing, the Anker 737’s 140W single-port output topped up machines quickly, and the built-in color screen showing real-time wattage and capacity is surprisingly handy. It also refuels itself fast with a high-wattage charger. The trade-offs: it’s heavier and pricier than basic banks, and there’s no true UPS mode or robust pass-through, so it won’t simultaneously charge itself and devices at full power.

What We Like

  • Very high single-port output (up to 140W) suitable for charging power-hungry laptops.
  • Built-in color screen shows real-time output and remaining capacity.
  • Charges itself very quickly when paired with a high-wattage charger.

Room for Improvement

  • Relatively heavy and chunky compared with smaller power banks.
  • Higher price point than basic portable chargers.
  • No UPS mode or simultaneous self-charge at full power (limited pass-through capability).
Apple AirTag

Help your bestie stop misplacing keys with an AirTag, which in our testing was the easiest tracker to set up on an iPhone. Seamless Find My integration and Precision Finding with UWB gave us clear arrows and distance when hunting under couches or in parking garages. It’s tiny and light enough to disappear on bags or keychains. Downsides: Android support is limited, the built-in speaker isn’t very loud, and you’ll swap a CR2032 coin cell about once a year.

What We Like

  • Seamless integration with Apple's Find My network for easy setup and broad location updates.
  • Precision Finding using UWB on compatible iPhones gives very accurate direction and distance guidance.
  • Small, lightweight design fits discreetly on keys, bags, and other items.

Room for Improvement

  • Limited functionality for Android users because core features require Apple devices.
  • On-board speaker can be quieter than some buyers expect, making locating by sound harder in noisy environments.
  • Requires CR2032 coin cell battery replacement about once per year instead of rechargeable power.
Ember Mug 2

This is the desk upgrade your always-sipping friend didn’t know they needed. In our testing, the Ember Mug 2 kept coffee at a precise, user-set temperature and, on the charging coaster, stayed hot indefinitely—a delight during long calls. The sleek design feels gift-worthy, but it’s pricier than a regular mug and battery life off the coaster is often under two hours. Also, the app and Bluetooth pairing can be finicky, so patience is occasionally required.

What We Like

  • Keeps beverages at a precise, user-set temperature via the app.
  • Includes a charging coaster that lets the mug stay hot indefinitely while docked.
  • Sleek, premium design that feels gift-worthy and looks modern on a desk.

Room for Improvement

  • Battery life is limited when used off the coaster, often under two hours.
  • Companion app and Bluetooth pairing can be unreliable for some users.
  • Higher price point compared with a regular mug or insulated tumbler.
Fellow Stagg EKG Electric Kettle

For the friend who geeks out on coffee, the Fellow Stagg EKG brings café-level control to the kitchen. During our review, the degree-by-degree temperature settings and that superb gooseneck spout delivered precise, steady pours for pour-over perfection. The design is gorgeous, too, doubling as countertop decor. Just know it’s pricier than general-purpose kettles, the single-dial interface takes a minute to learn, and accuracy dips at very low temps—so it’s better for coffee than delicate green teas.

What We Like

  • Precise temperature control for coffee with degree-by-degree settings.
  • Excellent pour control thanks to the gooseneck spout and balanced handle.
  • Attractive, premium design that doubles as a countertop statement piece.

Room for Improvement

  • Less accurate at lower temperatures, making it a poorer choice for delicate green teas.
  • Relatively expensive compared with more general-purpose electric kettles.
  • Single-dial interface has a learning curve and can feel non-intuitive to new users.

Wellness, Beauty, and Self-Care Treats

Pampering picks that encourage rest, recovery, and feeling fabulous at forty.

Theragun Mini

Know a friend who’s always tight from workouts or desk days? During our review, the Theragun Mini impressed for travel: it’s compact, simple to use, and the 2–3 hour battery plus three speeds and attachments cover the basics. We did find it louder than expected, and the smaller form isn’t as ergonomic for reaching tricky spots as full-size models. A heads-up: some users report durability or charging hiccups and spotty support, so buy from a retailer with a solid return policy.

What We Like

  • Compact and travel-friendly size that’s easier to carry than full-size models.
  • Long battery life of around 2 to 3 hours, suitable for multiple sessions between charges.
  • Simple controls with three built-in speed settings and three attachments for basic use.

Room for Improvement

  • Can be louder than advertised, with some reviewers calling out noticeable operational noise.
  • Ergonomics are limited compared with larger Theragun models, making some areas harder to reach.
  • Some users report durability or charging/keep-charge issues and poor post-purchase support experiences.

Nostalgic Throwbacks with Modern Flair

Playful gifts that nod to the '80s and '90s, updated beautifully.

Fujifilm Instax Mini 12 Instant Camera

The Instax Mini 12 is the kind of playful crowd‑pleaser we recommend for party snapshots and instant keepsakes. In our testing, the simplified controls and improved flash delivered more consistent low‑light shots, and its compact, colorful body is super gift‑friendly. Just note there’s no self‑timer and no manual or double‑exposure options for creative tweaks. It runs on AA batteries and Instax Mini film, so factor in the ongoing cost—and have a few extra packs on hand for the birthday bash.

What We Like

  • Very easy to use—accessible for beginners and kids.
  • Updated flash produces more consistent photos in low light.
  • Compact, colorful design that's lightweight and gift-friendly.

Room for Improvement

  • No self-timer feature for delayed group or selfie shots.
  • No manual controls or double-exposure capability for creative photographers.
  • Requires Instax mini film and AA batteries, adding ongoing cost and waste.

Splurge-Worthy Showstopper Gift Pick

A luxe, memorable present that makes their milestone feel incredibly special.

Dyson Airwrap Multi-styler Complete Long

For the friend who loves a salon finish, the Dyson Airwrap Multi‑styler Complete Long combines curling, smoothing, and volumizing with airflow that’s gentler than traditional high‑heat tools. During our review, the cool‑to‑touch barrel tips made styling less stressful, and the attachments covered everything from sleek blowouts to bouncy waves. Expect a learning curve and plan to start with hair about 80% dry for the best curl hold. It’s a premium buy at $225, and sessions can take time until technique clicks.

What We Like

  • Comes with multiple attachments for curling, smoothing, and volumizing in one device.
  • Uses airflow (Coanda effect) to style hair with less direct heat than traditional tools.
  • Barrel tips stay cool to the touch, reducing burn risk during styling.

Room for Improvement

  • Premium price point makes it a significant investment compared with other stylers.
  • Requires hair to be around 80% dry before using curling barrels for best results.
  • There is a learning curve and styling can be time-consuming for some users.